The Andreev s Rules

**Read this book as many times as you wish to live happy days in your life.**

**Commandments**

1. Do not kill (do not take on God's work).
2. Do not do to others what you would not want done to you.
3. Do not lie, deceive, or hide the truth—eventually, all secrets come to light.
4. Do not cheat or betray.
5. Do not steal—anything, ever: neither small nor large, neither trifles nor great wealth.
6. Do not envy, ever.
7. Do not seek revenge.
8. Do not overeat or indulge in gluttony.
9. Respect your parents.
10. Do not fuss.
11. Avoid all forms of evil.
12. Remember the existence of good and evil in this world, and always remember that you serve good.

**Family**

13. Fear nothing but God alone. Fear nothing—I am with you. By following our rules, you need fear nothing, for a Guardian Angel stands behind you. Never doubt yourself.
14. Always be together.
15. Work together, fight for your happiness together, wield the sword of truth against evil together, flee from worldly vanity and filth together, ask God for forgiveness for your sins together, go to sleep together, and wake up together under the same Sun.
16. Always tell the truth: the right hand always knows what the left is doing, and the left hand always knows what the right is doing.
17. Remember your purity. It is so easy to tarnish and impossible to cleanse completely.
18. Always keep your word.
19. Serve good through your actions, words, and thoughts.
20. Be mindful of what seeds you sow in your family. Be cautious and plant only good seeds. Always be careful and tolerant with each other.
21. Remember that all words, actions, intonations, desires, and intentions towards each other are recorded in your partner's soul. Remember that you are like one book: you write on one page, and your partner writes on another. Do not think that by smearing, writing nonsense, foolishness, betrayal, meanness, deceit, the entire book will turn out to be the life of an honest person.
22. Speak sincerely to each other.
23. Not only must you not steal, kill, deceive, betray, or envy, but you must also stop and drive away any thoughts of these from within yourself, for they are evil knocking at your soul.
24. Detest any sin.
25. Do not allow any stench of sin.
26. Value each other, for life is given to us temporarily.
27. Family is paramount.
28. If you are unsure about something, whether it is right or wrong, project yourself several generations forward and think about what answer your descendants would want to hear.
29. There is good and evil, so always ask yourself: “What am I serving at this very moment?”
30. The devil walks the same paths. If you see someone stumbling or in filth and darkness, do not follow the same path.
31. Live as if you are already dead, and always remember that God returned you to earth for only a short time. You are a Spirit, and the body is just its temporary vessel—a shell, clothing. Why does the Spirit need wealth, power, pleasure? You will take nothing with you. Do no harm to anyone, change people's lives for the better.
32. Behave with dignity, as a human being. Listen to your coNscience not only when you are in public, but especially when you are alone with yourself. Do nothing shameful.
33. Anyone can perform a heroic deed once, but only strong natures can do what duty requires every day, despite their weaknesses and doubts.
34. Prioritize caring for your loved ones.
35. Even out of politeness, do not drink poison. Do not try to please people at the expense of your family, yourself, and your coNscience. Do not fear offending anyone by refusal or inattention.
36. Trust no one except your family.
37. Do not take out your anger on your loved ones or others. Anger is filth within your soul. Consider where it came from and how to cleanse it.
38. Strive to help each other with everything (cooking, cleaning, work, creativity).
39. If something bothers you, speak up immediately.
40. There are no trivial tasks. Every action either affirms or denies the truth of existence.
41. Seek each other's advice in everything you do, because you are always engaged in the same endeavor and live the same life.
42. Share everything with each other—food, warmth, joy, and even sorrow.
43. Live happily and inconspIcuously. Happiness dwells in silence.
44. Do not throw your joy into the stream of common sorrow. It will go unnoticed and mErely sink to the bottom. Keep your happiness within your family.
45. If you want your life to be different from others, simply live differently. Are they happy?
46. Extinguish any attempt to judge others in your mind. Let God do that; you focus on your own matters.
47. Do not move from one trivial concern to another—focus on one task.
48. Do not be scatterbrained, for scatterbrainedness is a shallow and superficial understanding of all things, devoid of any strength. In any task, to achieve truth, depth, and perfection, one requieres concentration, vigilance, and constant effort.
49. Don't be sad and gloomy. If you are sad and gloomy, it is a sure sign of idleness. Drown your sorrows in work.
50. Remember, talent is like a bird perched on your shoulder. If it sings, sing with it; if it flies, fly with it. Do not let it go—not for a day, an hour, or a moment—if it flies away, you won't catch it again.
51. No matter what happens around or within you, don't let a single muscle on your face twitch. Be calm and unflappable—always, always, always.
52. Do not lose your temper, never get angry, do not freak out, do not be nervous, do not give in to emotions, do not fuss.
53. Direct your steps on the path of peace.
54. Telling others about your spouse's mistakes and sins is like placing stones on the branches of a tree you plan to dine under in windy weather, hoping they won't fall and hit your head. Never speak ill of your loved ones to anyone. Haram.
55. Never loose hope.
56. If you are unhappy in the world given to you, create your own reality and be happy there.
57. Be modest in all your affairs: in behavior, in words, in food, in clothing, in possessions, in your place of residence, and in the interior of your home. Luxury and excess corrupt, so be content with little and remember that all this is temporary. True wealth and beauty always shine from within.
58. Never raise your voice at each other. Shouting is a sign of weakness.
59. For husbands: if you see a beautiful woman, turn your gaze away. Do not let the beauty of another woman live in your heart. This place belongs to your wife and only her. For wives: do not look at other men, do not communicate with men except your husband and relatives.
60. Wives, praise your husbands; husbands, praise your wives.
61. Remember: “Moderation in eating, diligence in work, and peace within yourself will save you.”
62. Always finish what you start. If you can't finish, at least bring the task to a logical conclusion.
63. If you undertake something, do it well. “Andreev lent a hand.”
64. Do not use foul language, either aloud or to yourself.
65. Carefully consider all possible consequences of your decisions.
66. Try not to make mistakes or do foolish things. Always remember that your mistakes will affect not only you but also your family, loved ones, and close friends.
67. Avoid making hasty decisions, because everything in life flows and changes. What seems like a hopeless situation today may resolve itself tomorrow. So don't rush, live slowly and live long.
68. When making significant purchases, always consult each other. Avoid buying unnecessary items. Before making a purchase, give yourself 24 hours or more to think about it. Impulsive shopping is often the worst thing you can do with your money.
69. Husbands and wives should have access to each other's phones, social media accounts, emails, etc.
70. Do not love wealth.
71. Don't owe anything to anyone.
72. Never play cards or gamble with anyone, anywhere.
73. If you give or donate something, never ask for it back. Gifts should not be returned.
74. If your loved ones need help, prioritize offering practical assistance first. Avoid giving money whenever possible, as it can create temptation. Only give what you're comfortable parting with if there's no alternative.
75. If you help someone financially, whether through words or actions, never remind them of it.
76. All financial matters are shared.Bank accounts should be held jointly.
77. Any property or business acquired should be jointly owned.
78. Don't curse your enemies, whether aloud or in your thoughts. Avoid wishing them harm.
When you desire something, ask yourself: is it the spirit or the body whispering this to you? Remember, the body is deceitful and always deceives. Resist fulfilling its desires.
80. Food that entices you to indulge opens the gates to sin. Food should be taken as medicine and nourishment for the soul and body, not for pleasure.
81. Always remember the sufferings and hardships we've endured in our lives. Let's honor those who won't return.
82. When going to sleep, think that this is the last day you have lived in this life. Confess your faults to each other and pray for each other to heal, hoping that you will be granted another day to live more purely.

### On Pastime

83. Always remember God. Pray constantly, in all circumstances, as the situation allows, and repeat your chosen spiritual praise.
84. Before every conscious action or thought, say: “Lord, help me, Lord, enlighten me.”
85. Read the Holy Scriptures and the writings of the Church Fathers daily.
86. To stay at the top of your expertise, read all the books specific to your profession. For all other books, follow this rule: 'We do not read geniuses; we read Saints.
87. When you pick up a book, ask yourself, 'Was this written by a saint?' If not, set it aside.
88. Do not spend your time satisfying petty, innumerable, and insatiable whims and desires. Remember death.
89. Every moment should be occupied with work, either you fill it with light, or else others will fill it with darkness.
90. Do not idle aimlessly. Every movement should have a purpose.
91. In moments of idleness, you are open and defenseless, waiting to be filled like an empty cup.
92. Silence your thoughts with work. Work to exhaustion so that distractions cannot find their way into your stream of thoughts. By the end of the day, your brain should ache from effort.Squeeze every drop of your talent out.
93. Do not watch, read, or listen to anything that inflames your blood.
94. Write. If you cannot write, then read.
95. Prefer writing your own works over reading and rereading others'. Your thoughts are fire; others' are smoke. Fire gives light and warmth, while smoke brings tears and a choking breath.
96. Do not view obscene photos and videos.
97. Do not watch entertaining videos or use social media; instead, devote your time to spiritual books.
98. Keep your mind focused and avoid being scattered by entertainment.
99. If you want to watch a movie or start reading a new book, discuss it with each other, read reviews, and consider whether the time spent will be wise. Would you want what you see or read to become part of you?
100. Do not start a new book without finishing the previous one. Page by page, book by book, step by step, year by year, walk toward the light.
101. Alternate between reading books in your native language and a foreign languages.
102. Do not go where it is not necessary to go. Do not communicate with those with whom it is unnecessary to communicate.
103. Cherish nature.
104. Work for your family for six days, and on the seventh, work for future generations.
105. Every day, dedicate time to unhurried work. Either wake up earlier than everyone else or work in the quiet of the night. Greet the sunrise with your work.

### On Interaction with Society

106. Our family is our fortress. Do not let anyone put dirty hands into it.
107. Evil, envious people who give destructive advice are not welcome in our family.
108.If someone speaks ill of your spouse or children, immediately stop the conversation and say, 'I won't entertain this, let's not continue.' (And to yourself, say, 'The dirt stays outside.')
109. Do not meet or talk with people if you know or suspect that the conversation will not be spiritually beneficial.
110. Do not meddle in others' affairs.
111. Love society by the principle: “I love you when you are far from me,” for what is esteemed by society is detestable to God.
112. When in the company of others, if you feel that someone is about to burst forth with filth and sin, the best decision is to leave that group of people. If you cannot leave, you must stop the person. Do not let their sin taint your soul.
113. Do not allow anyone to flirt with you.
114. Do not allow anyone to talk to you about vulgarity. It is better to simply leave.
115. There should be no personal friends, only friends of the family. Think: would you allow this person around your children? If not, why keep them around?
116. He who justifies another’s sin takes on that sin himself.
117. Do not seek the gaze of others—do not bathe yourself in filth.
118. Speak less—listen more.
119. Never interrupt.
120. Always be polite, say “thank you” and “please.” A kind word is pleasant even to an animal.
121. Speak only good things; when you want to say something bad, remain silent.
122. Do not give advice to others unless asked—your world and chronicle are your own.
123. Do not tell others about yourself, your family, joys, weaknesses, or illnesses. Remember, in moments of envy, the blind begin to see, the mute speak, and the deaf hear.
124. Never rush to answer.
125. Do not let others disturb your peace. Before reacting, think for yourself.
126. Answer questions directly, adding nothing extra. A thread unravels the ball. Yet, you don't need that. Stick to your own weaving.
127. Do not try to prove anything to people. Do not try to become their hero; instead, be a servant of purity and goodness.
128. If someone asks you for a favor, listen and then say: 'We will see what the future will bring us, and I will think about it.' Do not say either 'yes' or 'no.
129. Do not make anyone a clown, even if the person is crazy. Look at them as a doctor looks at patients.
130. Always pay for others' services. A dry spoon tears the mouth.
131. Never borrow or lend money without consulting each other. If there is no other way, lend money without interest.
132. Never take or give bribes.
133. Be careful: if the person next to you is pricking someone else with a needle, it will be nothing for them to stick a knife into you.
134. Do not accept suspicious gifts.
135. Always remember that children from troubled families are likely to follow in their parents' footsteps. Don't think you're better than them, and don't add sin to sin.
136. Do not show your intelligence to anyone.
137. Never boast.

### On Safety

138. Study the laws of the place where you are located.
139. Never drink, smoke, or use substances that cloud the mind, and do not allow your children to do so.
140. Completely avoid drugs and weapons.
141. Never handle weapons, knives, guns, rifles, or any other type, and do not allow your children to handle them. There should be no weapons at home.The only exception to this rule is to protect your motherland against invaders.
142. If someone takes up a weapon or plays with one, leave immediately.
143. Do not engage in foolish behavior.
144. When words fail, protect yourself and your loved ones with pepper spray.
145. Do not accept gifts from strangers. If someone tries to give you something on the street, do not take it. Simply say, "No, thank you," and move on.
146. Never eat food from strangers. Even if someone offers you something, politely decline by saying, 'No, thank you. I'm not hungry. I just ate.'
147. Do not disclose your name, surname, address, or occupation to strangers.
148. Do not allow strangers or acquaintances to stay in your home alone or with your children.
149. Be attentive to what is happening around you, but do not stare at people. Avoid eye contact to prevent provoking aggression or conflict.
150. If an unstable person sits next to you in public transport, move to another seat but not with your back to them. If they follow you, get off the bus and go to a crowded place such as a store or bank.
151. Keep a distance from strangers.
152. Try to avoid large crowds.
153. If you find something that does not belong to you—a wallet, weapon, phone, money—do not touch it. On the street, walk around it.
154. Do not discuss vital issues in writing or over the phone. If someone insists, say, "This is not a phone conversation. Let's talk at home."
155. Remember that all electronics, such as phones and computers, record all your movements, conversations, and thoughts, and therefore can be used against you. Use only decentralized, open-source operating systems for your phones and computers, and utilize all available privacy tools. Do not trust AI. Think for yourself.
156. Always choose the safest vehicle for travel.
157. Do not travel to or live in dangerous countries or high-crime areas.
158. When someone yells at you, do not engage. Let them vent. Always remember: flames die out in silence.
159. Cultivate a mindset that does not take offense.
160. Never argue about matters that do not concern you personally, your family, your life, or your well-being.
161. Record important meetings with a hidden camera or voice recorder.
162. Before reacting to someone’s inappropriate actions, ask yourself: "Why are they doing this?" Are they provoking you? Be wise, be steadfast.
163. Do not provoke conflicts with others.
164. If you witness a crime, avoid any physical or verbal contact with the criminal.
165. Do not associate with people who drink, smoke, or use drugs. If you find yourself in a situation where people are drinking or smoking, leave immediately—nothing good ever comes of it.
166. Do not drive drunk, and do not allow yourself to ride with someone who has been drinking, using drugs, or is unstable.
167. Do not help commit crimes, and do not commit crimes yourself.
168. Stay away from people who consciously commit crimes.
169. Do not react to aggression: remain silent when someone yells or provokes you.
170. Do not interfere in fights.
171. Prepare all necessary documents before driving.
172. Never talk to the police. You always have the right to remain silent. When forced to communicate with them, silence is life-saving.
173. Do not sign anything given to you by the police or any other authorities.
174. When stopped by law enforcement, be extremely polite and attentive, but not talkative. Observe their actions closely. Listen, do not speak. Keep your hands on the wheel.
175. If a police officer demands something from you, comply, as the law will always be on their side.
176. Talking to the police is always a bad idea. Remember: your words will always be used against you. Be silent. Be silent. Be silent.
177. Know and follow traffic rules, and never exceed the speed limit.
178. Never violate pedestrian rules. Always look around when crossing the road. Trust your eyes, not the traffic light.
179. You follow the traffic rules, but not everyone does, so always watch the road.
180. Never rush, even if you're late. Most accidents and silly mistakes happen in haste.
181. Do not get into unfamiliar cars.
182. When taking a taxi, send a screenshot of the car number to a family member. Don't sit in the front seat.
183. Do not turn your back on strangers, and do not allow anyone to walk behind you.
184. Do not help strangers carry or move their belongings.
185. Do not leave your belongings unattended.
186. If you have a large sum of money, divide it and store it in several places.
187. Never give your passport or other documents to anyone.
188. It's better not to sign anything, but if you must, read everything carefully and mark an X in a blank space.
189. Do not sign or pay for anything if you feel pressured or guilt-tripped—these are clear signs of manipulation.
190. Never forge documents or help anyone do so.
191. Always wear safety gear like safety glasses, earplugs, and gloves when doing any construction work.
192. Follow safety protocols and consider all possible scenarios if others do not follow them.
193. Avoid potential danger.
194. Even the smallest car is stronger than the largest and strongest person, so beware of any vehicles, trains, and machinery.
195. Use front and rear cameras in your car.
196. Never put animals near your face. You never know what is in a person's mind, let alone an animal's.
197. Know your relatives' phone numbers and the family code word.

### Practical Advice

198. Start your day by reviewing the rules.
199. To think well, you need to think every day.
200. Live according to a schedule.
201. Follow a daily plan: write 10 pages of text, one poem in your native language, and one in a foreign language, and keep reading until the end of the day. Write only with a pencil or pen on paper, as words typed on a computer cannot be alive.
202. To stay active, always stay a little hungry. Fullness equals sleep, and sleep equals death. Stay busy, as the devil finds work for idle hands.
203. Do eye exercises after reading a few pages.
204. Make a daily schedule and prioritize the most important tasks.
205. Save your time.
206. Do not believe a single word of advertisements.
207. Get enough sleep.
208. Maintain a routine.
209. Always be clean-shaven, well-groomed, and dress neatly and cleanly.
210. Dress according to the weather and avoid drafts.
211. Do not sit on cold surfaces like stone or concrete. Always put something underneath.
212. Protect your head—wear a hat.
213. Do not drink or eat cold things when you are sweating.
214. Everything you see and hear leaves its mark on you, so surround yourself with cleanliness, purity, and order.
215. Whatever you do, always clean up after yourself. Be impeccably clean and tidy.
216. Always stick to your rules: 1. Proper nutrition and diet. 2. Constant work—write, write, write. 3. Reading as a reward for work. 4. Physical exercise—walking. 5. Prayers.
217. Record your ideas about life, family, and creativity.
218. Always carry a good book with you.
219. There should be no television in the house.
220. Be moderate in eating, which will bring health and strength to your body and alertness to your mind.The health of the entire body is forged in the furnace of the stomach.
221. Stick to your diet without indulgences or excuses. Eat twice a day without overeating, and avoid snacks. Remember, if you can conquer your appetite, you'll have the strength to cultivate your talent, and that's how history is made.
222. Finish eating while still feeling a little hungry, as full satisfaction comes later. If there is food left, avoid overeating. Think about who else you might feed.
223. Never go to bars and restaurants; do not eat street food. It's better to cook and eat at home.
224. Purchase non-essentials only with passive income. Invest in yourself.
225. Always carry a first aid kit.
226. Avoid buying goods and services from private ads. Never buy or bring used items into your home—maintain purity, do not defile yourself.
227. Prefer online shopping over in-person interactions and visits to stores whenever possible.
228. If you can get advice, service, or information online or by phone, use that option if there is no need for a face-to-face meeting.
229. Stock up on all necessary resources during good times. Build an emergency fund.
230. It's better to prevent illness than to treat it. And better to treat it early rather than letting it progress.
231. If something worries or hurts you, talk to each other immediately and make decisions together. If you want to live a long life, keep bees.
232. Suicide is not an escape even from the most wretched trap. Death will come on its own sooner or later—you just need to wait. While you are alive, work, and in this, you will find solace. Drown out the cry of your sorrow with work.
233. Repeat these rules every day without thinking of yourself. As you read them, feel the pain and cold of the tragedy if you do not follow these rules, and the light and joy that following them will bring. Always remember that you are serving goodness.