Great Sacrament

Often we have to hear from men: all women are the same face and they need only one thing from the stronger sex - money, jewellery, trips to expensive resorts. So and think, looking at a pretty face - and whether it is worth to get in touch, it's just as likely to run into some kind of Magda Nabokov ... Mda ... No better, alas, the situation with the "weaker" half, all the same ... Well, what to expect from the relationship, which were pre-programmed in this way?

Mirrors, mirrors... How can we live in such a world of looking-glasses, if in the majority of people are mostly set up for negativity? When relationships are built not on care, desire to support or give each other a holiday, but on distrust and doubt (even if implicitly, even if only in the soul) ... Sometimes people say: "We trust each other 100%, support, we have no secrets and we can discuss everything calmly and openly! But they themselves have two online accounts and masks on their faces. Trust is openness, it's like with parents - real calmness, understanding that you can count on full acceptance, mutual support, if necessary.

A real man, interested in his woman, is always a defender, support, support and he does not have such phrases as: "I'm busy", "I didn't have time to call/write/arrive", "I can't". There is no word "I can't" - there is a word "I don't want to", I can't - only in the most extreme case, when you are in the civil service, in the operating theatre or emergency room, when a person (God forbid) has a personal tragedy, or he is completely broke (and it happens, there is nothing to be ashamed of, you just need to say it openly). The rest of the time - he is free. If not - then it's not serious, so, a game for one night. And do you both need such games?

A real woman is an inspiration, support, muse, keeper of the home. Such women in Russia called - Beregini, because their business - to protect the family, to keep the peace and balance of the family. She has the right to be weak, she MAY have something sick. She CAN stop a horse at a gallop and go into a burning hut, if necessary, but only in extreme cases, because she KNOWS that it is a man's business. But she has no right even to spread anywhere about what happens in the family, everything that goes on behind the doors of the house is a secret that concerns only two people. She is Love, she is Guardian, she is Tenderness.....

Yes, people build families, but they are always Personalities. The biggest problem (often hidden) is the dependence of one partner on the other. There should be no such thing. How can you demand from another what you don't have yourself? It's like begging, and is a relationship only about money? If so, then it is no longer Love. It's a calculation...

A family, a relationship is truly a great labour, it is a sacrament, it is tenderness, it is acceptance, it is struggle and constant work, including work on oneself. But here passes a year, two, three, four... Children are born, there are joint hobbies, what can I say, hearts grow attached to each other, and you realise that it is truly worth the work that you put in. Otherwise, what's the point of it all?