Soul Karma. Harm of resentment

Karmic relationship is a contract that Souls make before incarnation in order to work off certain obligations and promises not fulfilled to each other in the past life. And yes, this definition has its roots in Buddhism, where karma means an intentional action that has consequences. Although in Orthodoxy there is a concept of boomerang, but in the form of working off punishment, which is not quite right. We punish ourselves most often when we go the way of calculation, not the Soul, deceiving ourselves, and therefore others. Therefore, the most important moment of a relationship is, no matter how fantastic it sounds, sincerity, as well as the absence of offenses - the main provocateurs of the very negative karma.

The most complex and most misunderstood emotion and very difficult to realize is resentment. We can think that we have forgiven, let go of all offenses, but still there is no peace, we come back to the same events every time with our thoughts, to the person, as if attracted by a rope. This means that the offense is not let go, it is not understood and not lived to the end, it is not exhausted or even worse, it is fueled by our internal destructive attitudes and complexes. The fact is that offense, no matter how strong it is, is destructive first of all for the one who is offended. Therefore, a gradation is necessary, in which logic and reason, not feelings, prevail. Violence, gaslighting, crime - anything that threatens life and health - cannot be tolerated. And feelings. You have to be able to control them without letting them control us. The same jealousy is poison to the soul.

Having experienced a lot in my life I came to realize how destructive these feelings are for a person and those who surround him. The energy of resentment is often the mechanism of destruction that triggers negative processes first in a person's energy and then in his health. In diagnostics I often encounter the fact that resentment is visible, even after 10-20 years it remains inside the field and brings harm to a person. Initially, the offense in the energetic plan makes a certain “cut” in the human energy and this place does not heal, does not heal, does not become light for a long time. First irritation starts to accumulate there (it is red), then anger (it is already red-black) and finally it turns into despair (it is already pure black). This energy remains inside the body, the field, and over time begins to negatively affect the work of those organs near which it is located, as if polluting the surrounding space.

What to do? The best thing to do is to pull offenses outward, not to let them harm the body from the inside. The less time that has passed since the resentment arose, the easier it is to get it out. You can use your consciousness, logic, feelings, meditation, thought patterns, and a bunch of other ways to do this. If you feel that you cannot cope on your own, it is better not to delay and contact a specialist. Old resentments always remain for a long time inside your field and practically do not dissolve on their own, but they can easily accumulate. We should not let them grow inside us, it is better to take action immediately. A lot of energy and health problems could be avoided if people would think about it more seriously. Resentment always destroys, and unlike fear or anger, it has no protective energetic function. It is a conscious locking of a part of negative energy inside oneself, aimed at slow destruction of the environment. Please remember this and start changing your attitude to resentment now. And, what the most dangerous thing that resentment does is to trigger the processes of self-destruction of the body. Resentment is inherently an unreasonable expectation. Do not expect people to behave with you exactly as we imagined, then there is nothing to be offended by. There is no need to provoke this negative energy inside yourself and not to feed it with your life resource.
 
Yes, it hurts, but you should never lose control of your feelings. Any offenses, insults, bullying - these are lessons that we just need to understand and find a solution to the problem, which most often lies within ourselves. Namely, to break the situation down into atoms and molecules and work through all the causes and effects that led to this outcome. If it is a toxic environment, then it is worth asking questions - how we found ourselves in it and what it gives us, as well as to enter into a dialog (in no case, not moving to criticism and insults) with the participants of bullying. If conversations do not help (as, for example, in the case of virtual Internet bullying) and it is not only about us, but also about personal problems of toxic people with whom it is impossible to find a common language, is it worth staying in this environment? In cases where bullying crosses the permissible boundaries of the law, it is worth resorting to calling for administrative responsibility and contacting law enforcement agencies. The same goes for relationships. If the views on the interaction in a couple are different and we are not satisfied with the behavior of the partner, it is worth honestly confess it and come to a mutual decision. In the case when the conversation is impossible or has no power, the only way out is to stop the relationship altogether.

Karma can trap us in a pattern of behavior. We attract the same people, jobs, illnesses, events and accidents into our lives. The cycle: karma feeds resentment, resentment feeds karma. Makes us attract people who give you even more reasons to resent. Put into practice these 7 steps to break away from your current karma and manifest a new reality:

1. Conduct a karma analysis. Each of us has unique karma. So take an honest look at your obstacles and realize: what the problem is, when and how it all started. And then go back to the source of the problem. Determine in what areas of your life you feel stagnant:
*Career
*Personal relationships
*Health

2. Break toxic ties. Life is complicated - don't let the wrong people complicate it even more! Without remorse, terminate all relationships with toxic people who hinder your spiritual growth by invading your energy field. Politely and respectfully distance yourself from such people, communication with whom brings you more harm than good. If a person's energy does not feel “light” and he or she is constantly causing manipulation and energy loss, you owe it to yourself and your life to do so.

3. Take responsibility for your life. Taking responsibility is difficult because your ego doesn't like to be blamed. When you admit your mistakes, the energy starts its flow, your perspective starts to grow. You learn from your mistakes and the next time a similar situation arises you will make a clean sweep!

4- Heal your karma. Do things that nourish, delight the spirit and cause a sense of light joy and peace: do meditation, yoga, self-development. Love your inner child. Learn to accept circumstances and work with what you have.

5. Challenge your weaknesses. Each of us has weaknesses and strengths. Our weaknesses are our secret strengths. They are part of us and define us just as much as our more outstanding qualities. Don't become a “victim” of your weaknesses. Get out of old scripts.

6. Take new actions. If the old way of doing things is not working for you, change your behavior. Sometimes old scripts keep you from seeing obvious weaknesses. And act on principle! Therefore, do good and treat others as you would like others to treat you.

7. Forgive everyone. Nothing is as liberating as forgiveness! In order to forgive, you need to let go of anger, bitterness, and frustration. Negative karma breeds resentment - it ;;attracts people who give you even more reasons to be resentful. Emotions throw us into these repetitive scenarios.

Karma is a unique game for each of us - each person is fighting his or her own battle. But the sooner we identify the sources of our problems and take action to resolve it, the sooner we will experience the miracle of liberation to achieve our life's true purpose.