Trash is not

..you know, maybe, he, knowing you, has been trying to tell you that dragging your exes into your new relationship is trashy and will ruin a lot. Everywhere.   


But the only thing you wanna hear is how better than thou you are. 


So he took this favourite rhetoric of yours and tried to use it to try to trigger you to stop harming others. and yourself. and your business. To try to trigger you to begin finishing a relationship before you start romancing a new person.  To prevent shitstorms. 


But the only thing you heard was "well, they suck, so move on". Instead of "you suck cause you create harems and thus problems, so, don't".  


Like training a dog: Sit! Stay! Not because running is trash, but because dogs who don't learn how to act get put to sleep. 


But then, maybe your antagonism made you wanna do what he told you not to.. All you heard's "he tells me not to dig in the trash but i wiiiiiilllllll, HA!"   When in fact he was telling you all along that it's you who is trash and it is helping noone.