The Naked Truth, or PMS, English version... 12

ABOUT THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GATE AND A DOOR…)) 

Today I want to talk to you about... sex...)) It would seem, what else are we talking about here? Hmm...)) A counter question (don't forget my Jewish roots!))), aren't we always talking about sex deep down, no matter what we are talking about on the surface and formally?)) Men discuss cars, but in reality they are showing off their penises; women discuss clothes, makeup, manicures, but in reality they are showing off their attractiveness and sexual desirability; university professors give lectures, but in reality they are trying to prove their male dominance, delicately, as they think, reprogramming the young minds of their female students towards different sexual priorities so that, to call a spade a spade, they leave dark-skinned football players far behind in their erotic dreams, contrasting their purely animal sexuality with their own intellectual sexuality...)) Although, in essence, it's just a debate about which males have cooler plumage, if we're talking about birds, or which have more attractive tail tufts, if we're talking about lions...))

I want to talk about sex in general... What is it about?

Why do we have it? What is it for? Why does it evoke such contradictory feelings, from intense arousal, which sometimes overwhelms all other emotions and feelings, to embarrassment, awkwardness, or shame...

In many ways, everything related to the sexual organs is inextricably linked to the mysteries of Birth and Death... If only because these organs serve for Conception and directly for Childbirth. Sexual arousal is necessary for the Root of Life to be firm and vigorous, and for the Gates to be sufficiently moisturized and ready to receive the Seed of New Life...

When my current wife and I first got together quite a few years ago, I used the word “door” to describe something similar to what I am saying now...
“No, not a door, but a Gateway!” my daughter objected.

“Can you explain the difference?” I asked.

Without hesitation, she replied, “Well, a door is like going into the next room, but a Gateway is like going into another world!” And we really stepped through it... My wife had recently passed away, and I was left alone with two children (the older one was 12, the younger one was 5) without much help from grandparents; her older child was already an adult, and the younger one had just started school... I am from Moscow, she is from southeastern Ukraine... We both have one pure-blooded Ukrainian grandmother... We are both from the USSR... She spent her entire school childhood in Tula, and her preschool years in Nizhnevartovsk, a city built by her parents, both of whom were Russian according to their passports...)) We were both born in January 1973, under the sign of Aquarius... She is a webcam model from a small Ukrainian town, and I am a composer and arranger from the capital, but not a top-tier one, living a life of ups and downs... ((In short, the New Gate really opened up before us, and we took it, and stepped through it, holding hands and truly believing in each other...
In the early years, we lived like everyone else: endless family chores and no webcam... And when you live like that, sex gradually becomes less and less frequent, and despite the abundance of shared family responsibilities, you as a man and a woman begin to drift apart... One is too tired from the daily grind, then the other...)) Everyone understands... Otherwise, alas, it doesn't work...
But one day, it was as if we turned the tables...))

My girl returned to webcamming, and I began to help her in every way I could... Over time, we registered as a couple...

To say that our sex life became more intense is an understatement...)) Moreover, our sex life became a small business for us in terms of income, and we are not ashamed of it at all... Actually, this is what I wanted to talk about from the very beginning—why should sex be shameful?

Why should we be ashamed that our sex life, which includes not only fucking, of course, but also the whole range of our relationship in all its nuances and intonations, evokes strong emotions and feelings in people of all ages, a desire to join in, or simply admiration and envy?

Why should we be ashamed that, at almost 50, we are definitely more interesting and sexier than the vast majority of our peers, and, of course, than young couples who are just starting out?

Why, after all, should we be ashamed of being one of the best?))
Why should we be ashamed that when looking at our sex life (I repeat that by sex I mean the whole complex of our relationship: from coitus and oral sex to writing songs and prose), very young people, who just yesterday, and not without some reason, considered their “elders” to be “morally outdated shit,” begin, purely by analogy, to see their own parents as real people, similar to themselves, as was originally intended by God?)))

In Hellenistic civilization (Ancient Greece and early Ancient Rome), there was never such a pathologically shameful attitude towards sex as there is in our world today... It's as if the modern world is pushing us all to believe that we should be ashamed of being human... Is that so?))) Rams, I apologize, did anyone confuse you?

The fact that we give our sex to others and are not ashamed of it can be seen as a celebration of Christian values...)) God the Father, for example, loved our world so much that he did not spare even his only Son, who, in turn, did not spare his own life for the sake of love for our world... We loved this world so much (despite the fact that it has often been very cruel to both of us) that we did not spare our own sex and our own love for each other for the sake of the world... And what, for example, have you not spared for our world?..)))
And finally, why should we actually be ashamed that most people know less, have experienced less, read and listened to less, thought less, suffered less, are less courageous and brave, more boring and stupid, and, of course, simply more aggressive and evil?))) Or maybe we just shouldn't scratch our left ear with our right hand and instead come to the obvious conclusion that most people are so terrible simply because they are banally underfucked?)) Well, um...)) In short, draw your own conclusions...)) 

In short, to paraphrase Vysotsky, we can say that the only thing better than sex is the sex you have yet to have... People who see sex as something shameful... Hmm... In a word, I'm afraid of such people... Even more than those who don't drink, which in Russia always traditionally causes great distrust...)))))))



TO BE CONTINUED...


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