How to Treat People

At the beginning of the article I want to publish one saying Tatiana Osokina, author of a number of Christian articles in Prose.ru and others websites about people’s lives and their attitude to each other: “I mean It seems that every person on earth carries light. People like stars, Lighting in the dark. Some are brighter, others are weaker. But if you look closely more carefully, you can see that the light of some is ordinary, Primitive light. And often just stupid. With such people boring and Sad. It's sad. The light of others seems much brighter and more attractive, but if Get close to him, he can burn. We need to keep this in mind!

But there is light, which, grief, illuminates and warms everyone around, while not blinding and not burning, which attracts not so much with its beauty and brightness, how much soft warmth and good glow. To such a light pulling inexorably and, burning from him a tiny spark in his I want to go and spread his wonderful mercy to world!"

Here is another answer from the internet:
One day, an old man was sitting at the gates. A young man came up to him and asked, I've never been here. Tell me, old man, what kind of people live in this city? The old man answered, “What kind of people have been in the city you left out of?”
They were selfish and evil people. That’s why I was happy to leave.
“You will meet exactly the same here,” the old man replied to him. A little Wait, another person approached this place and asked the same question:
- I just got here. Tell me, Father, what kind of people live in this city?
The old man replied the same: warms up
- Tell me, son, how did people behave in the city where you came from?
- Oh, they were kind, hospitable and noble souls! I have there There were a lot of friends left, and it was not easy for me to part with them.
"You'll find the same here," replied the old man. Behind the whole scene watched a citizen who was rickety next to his cart. He came to The old man asked:
- Why did you say to the same thing that scoundrels live here, and the other - that good people live here?
“There are good people everywhere, and bad ones,” the old man replied to him. “Everyone finds only what he knows how to look for.
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"HOW SHOULD I TREAT PEOPLE?" CONFUCIANS

Confucius said that humanity is an element of the state ideologies, and at the same time, are a moral criterion. Humanity does emphasis on the care of others and includes things like Indulgence and generosity. It also has a deep importance for the education of modern society.

Once, when Confucius discussed with his students, how to One of them said, “If others show I will be kind to me, I will also be kind to them; if they are not They show kindness, and I will not be kind.”
Confucius replied, “This is what immoral people do.”

The disciple said, “If others kindly treat me, I will answer if they do not show kindness, I will guide them to the path good."
Confucius replied, “This is how friends treat each other.”

Then the third disciple said, “If others kindly treat me, I I will answer them with kindness; if they do not show kindness, I will still be good With them and guide them to the path of good.”

Confucius replied, “This is what relatives usually treat each other. If you will treat all people so sincerely, and this will be true Kindness!”

One day the Yangtze asked Confucius: “How to get to be comfortable with kindness To treat others? I would like to learn to treat others equally, regardless of whether they are rich or poor, to be courageous and at the same time, do not flaunt their courage, to be friends only with those people who set themselves noble goals, and would also like Avoid the hardships in life. Is that right?”

Confucius replied, “To be kind, it is necessary to improve the soul and constantly improve the level of morality. What you said, All right. If you treat people equally, regardless of whether you are rich They or are poor, then you will remain good-natured and will not follow the lead of Passion. If you treat people equally, whether occupy you high position or not, you will always be, humble and polite. If you show courage and do not flaunt your Courage, you respect people. If you are friends with people who have noble ends, and avoid the adversity of your life, It means that you are careful and know how to choose friends. It's very A good goal!”